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Marriage and Relationships

In 2003, the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled in Goodridge v. Department of Public Health that denying same-sex couples the right to marry violated the Massachusetts Constitution's guarantees of equality and liberty. Massachusetts became the first state in the United States to legalize same-sex marriage. On May 17, 2004, the first legal same-sex marriages were performed in Massachusetts. This historic moment represented a significant victory for LGBTQ+ rights advocates and marked a major milestone in the fight for marriage equality. On May 17, 2004, Lynn City Hall began issuing same sex marriage licenses. Marriage has provided LGBTQ+ couples with legal recognition and protections that were previously unavailable to them, such as access to spousal benefits, healthcare decision-making rights, and inheritance rights. For some, marriage represents a significant step towards societal acceptance and validation of their relationships and identities. Some LGBTQ+ individuals may have reservations about the institution of marriage itself, viewing it as inherently heteronormative or patriarchal. They may question the societal pressure to conform to traditional relationship structures and prioritize other forms of relationship recognition and support within the LGBTQ+ community.

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I had a lot of romantic relationships.

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My first girlfriend and I were secretive.

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Getting married to a man.

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I didn't know we were a "polycule".

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Meeting Rex: Burlington, Provincetown, Tufts, and Transitioning

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I married a fag, just to prove I wasn't homosexual.

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200 at the wedding, few family.

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No pressure to be an example.

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I was heartbroken.

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Sex outside of relationship

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Tish was madly in love with somebody.

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Marriage equality changed people.

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Getting Married Four Days After 9.11.01

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I just wasn't ready for a relationship.

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Here's how we met.

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Partnership and Marriage.

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Moving to Lynn: A Hidden Transition

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Tony and I were domestic partners first.

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People still talk about the wedding.

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Conventions of Marriage, Family, and Home Ownership

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Marriage equality passed during law school.

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I met my wife through GLASS.

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The whole preppy thing at Somewhere.

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Nice to have somebody

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No friends

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Your husband can get you out.

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Mom and I danced at my wedding.

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I met my wife on MySpace.

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Meeting Nikki.

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Relationship patterns

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I was so excited about marrriage equality.

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I want to really marry a woman.

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Richard took me kind of under his wing.

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I met my husband cruising in Salem.

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Meeting Bridget and Moving to Boston

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Meeting Sergio.

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I met Rob long before we dated.

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Celebrating marriage equality in Provincetown.

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Benefits of marriage.

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I met my wife in college.

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Gay marriage is incredibly important.

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My ex, a whirlwind of excitement and danger.

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I covered gay marriage arriving to Florida.

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I have to go to a bar to meet people.

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I got married on the roof of Fran's.

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After the ceremony was over, everybody applauded us.

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Marriage equality offers protections.

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We could marry you right now.

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We got our license at Lynn City Hall.

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Your lover has to be in the closet.

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My identity wasn't to be in that marriage.

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